Break down tasks and involve the individual in a simple, helpful preparation task. This aids self esteem and helps him/her be a part of the celebration.
- Hand Christmas ornaments while decorating
- Wrap gifts
- Help with food preparation – ie: peeling potatoes, greasing a baking pan
- Set the table
- Avoid using candies, artificial fruits/vegetables or other edibles as decorations.
Blinking lights may confuse the person.
Plan ahead-if the individual is vulnerable to over stimulation, limit the activities or length of time in which he or she is included.
Don’t put out a lot of finger foods, like sweets, especially if the individual has a problem with impulse control. This could lead to sugar induced hyperactivity or an upset stomach,
Engage everyone, including the memory-impaired, with reminiscing. Often, individuals with memory problems can recall the past but forget recent events or conversations, By getting them to talk about the past, younger family members can be exposed to their roots and the memory-impaired will feel validated for their perspective on family history.
If the person is prone to “sundowning”, a daytime gathering may be the best option
Avoid criticism that can embarrass or shame the older person. i.e. When they forget a recent conversation, refrain from saying “don’t you remember?”
Limit or eliminate alcohol consumption, which can provoke bad behavior or interfere with medications.
Establish a quiet room in the home, so that the family member can step out of the hustle and bustle for a calm moment.